Happy Easter, everybody! This year I spent Easter weekend with my Dad’s side of the family at my grandparents’ beloved house on Mobile Bay in Alabama. This home has been through everything– from weddings to hurricanes and countless holidays, family crisis, and travelers. Even Nigel Barker, the famous photographer (you may know him from America’s Next Top Model), has stayed here! The pier has been redone over six times, each time with more love and desire to get the house back up and running so we can continue to grow and cherish it. There’s no place I love more than this one; New York City is a close second. I didn’t realize how much I loved the South until this weekend. I’ll admit, the City is much more my speed. But nothing compares to the serenity given when sitting in your new Eno hammock on the porch while watching the sun set over the endless waters. There’s something comforting about the sound of the crickets and the smell of the crab traps bobbing under the low tide. This place is my second home. I’ve brought friends of every kind and from every group to this place because I can’t resist but share it. The people I care about should experience the beauty that is this place I care about so deeply. I like you a whole lot, Point Clear.
I couldn’t resist but do a little styling on this beautiful Easter Sunday.
I mentioned in an earlier post that I had given up shopping for Lent this year. Some people thought it was a lame and pointless idea, others wondered why they hadn’t thought of it themselves. The idea was planted into my head when in New York this February and on Ash Wednesday, I made it a point to make it into Free People before we left that day. The woman working the cash register was telling me that she was going to give up shopping for Lent and that it was already tough just from one day. That hit home a little bit; considering I was shopping while hearing this, I knew that her obsession with clothes was probably as bad as mine. Come Lent I hadn’t thought of what my Lenten promise would be, so I took this as a sign. Even NYC was sending me signals that I shop too much… So I’ve been withdrawing myself from my little hobby for the past 40 days as best as I could. I honestly didn’t think it would be as hard as it has been! I must admit that I gave in one Saturday and did a good bit of online shopping. I’ve been stalking all the latest trends to stay up to date. And because Sunday’s don’t count, I just had to get myself into a boutique every now and then to fill the void in my clothing-obsessed heart. But here’s the deal with me and shopping: I don’t shop just for the sake of getting new clothes. I consider them more as inventory than as a way just to blow some money. My clothes are my way of expressing myself and showing the world and my peers what I’m passionate about. For this reason, I firmly believe that I am not materialistic. Some of you may be thinking differently. Buying clothes gives me this weird fill of happiness that most people only get when playing with their new puppy. And in this way, I guess you could say that money does buy my happiness. Of course it could never replace the comforting feelings of being with my friends and family or from traveling. It’s just exciting to me to get to wear a shiny new skirt or an intricate set of earrings. I love it like I love potatoes. It’s strange. I really can’t explain why something as minimal as a piece of fabric brings me so much joy… I guess it just makes me feel good about myself. Sacrificing my sport, if you will, taught me all of these things about myself. Of course I understand the concept of Lent; we suffer because Jesus suffered for us. It’s the least we can do to show our devotion. Nothing will ever make up for the pain He went through to get us to where we are and to where we’re going, but Lent is the time for us Christians to come together and hopefully give back even a microscopic sliver of the things that He gave up for us. So thanks, Jesus, for giving it all up just so I can feed my fashion addiction. You rock. Amen.
Clearly I’m really proud of my Easter eggs… I had some help from my little cousins.The google-y eye serves as the dot of the “i” because I just have terrible luck when it comes to those white crayons. I hope everyone had a fulfilling Lenten season filled with the Holy Spirit and family. And candy. Lots of candy. If you want a little more of your Jesus fill, check out my more-perfect-than-perfect big’s blog to read about her Lenten experience! Her words are inspiring and that girl can write in ways that will speak to your heart.